The Lord invites us to come unto Him
regardless of our circumstances: “Come unto me, all ye that labour and are
heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me;
for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. For
my yoke is easy, and my burden is light” (Matthew 11:28–30).
As we come unto Christ in faith and
rely upon Him to bear our heavy burdens, we can experience His healing power. The Lord is anxious to bless us. We can find
great strength as we give our burdens to the Lord, Unfortunately, we may still suffer the
consequences of our loved ones’ poor choices. Yet we can receive His peace despite
our circumstances.
What
do you feel it means to lay your burdens at the feet of the Savior?
If we allow it, the pain and sorrow
resulting from our loved one’s addiction can lead us to the Savior. Christ knows our pain because He has
literally taken upon Himself our pains and sicknesses We can find hope through the enabling power
of Jesus Christ that we will be healed and supported in our trials no matter
the choices and actions of our loved ones.
Real healing does not become complete until we turn to the Savior.
What might prevent us from coming unto
Christ and exercising faith in Him so that He can heal us?
We do not "apply" the Savior's
sacrifice, rather we apply to Him and He has power by virtue of His sacrifice
to forgive us. We do not "embrace" the
atonement. We embrace Jesus, through the
veil, receive greater light and knowledge that allows us to overcome sin and in
this life, to re-enter his presence to embrace Him face to face. We do not "use" His sacrifice. Rather we emulate His example in
sacrificing. It is Jesus who forgives,
period. Jesus saves us, not the atonement.
There is a man who has shared his
vision of the events in Gethsemane.
"As the Lord knelt in prayer, his vicarious suffering began. He was overcome by pain and anguish…the
suffering was long and…difficult. He was
healed from sickness…overcame pains and patiently bore infirmities until
finally he returned to peace of mind and strength of body. It was an act of will and hope…He overcame
separation caused by these afflictions and reconciled with his Father…
He thought His
sufferings were over, but to His astonishment another wave overcame Him…much
greater than the first. He had been
kneeling, but fell forward onto his hands at the impact of the pain that was
part of a greater, second wave…much greater than the first…The Lord was now
stricken with physical injuries, as well as spiritual affliction. He suffered anew…Flesh torn, which he healed
using the power of charity within Him.
The Lord has such life within Him, such power and virtue…that although
he suffered in His flesh, these injuries healed…His suffering was both body and
spirit, and there was anguish of thought, feeling and soul.
The Lord overcame this
second wave and…his heart filled with love despite what He had suffered…He was
at peace…but it required another still greater act of will and charity than the
first…Again, He thought His suffering was over. He stayed on His hands and
knees for a moment to collect Himself when another wave of torment burst upon
Him. This wave struck with such force,
He fell forward upon His face.
He was afflicted by this
greater wave, then healed, only to be afflicted again as the waves of torment
overflowed. Wave after wave poured upon
Him, with only moments between them. The
Lord's suffering progressed from a lesser to a greater portion of affliction…Each
wave only preparation for the next. The pains of mortality, disease, injury and
infirmity, together with the sufferings of sin, transgressions, guilt of mind,
and unease of soul, the horrors of recognition of the evils men had inflicted
upon others were all poured upon Him; with confusion and perplexity multiplied.
He so longed for it to be over, and thought it would end long before it finally
ended. With each wave He thought it
would be the last, but then another came upon Him and yet another.
The one beholding this
scene was pained by what he saw, and begged for the vision to end. He could not bear to see his Lord suffering in
this manner. The petition was denied and
the vision did not end, for the Lord required him to witness it. The man saw
that the Lord pleaded that "this cup may pass"…but the Lord was
determined into the Father's will and not His own. A final wave came upon Him with such violence
as to cut Him at every pore. It seemed
for a moment that He was torn apart and that blood came out of every pore. He writhed in pain upon the ground as this
torment was poured upon Him.
All virtue was taken
from Him. All the great life force in
Him was stricken and afflicted. All the
light turned to darkness. He was humbled,
drained and left with nothing. It is not
possible for a man to bear such pains and live.
With nothing more than will, hope in His Father and charity toward all
men, He emerged from the final wave of torment, knowing He had suffered all
this for His Father and His brethren. By
hope and charity, trusting in the Father, the Lord returned from this dark
abyss and found grace again, His heart filled with love…These great burdens
were born, not only on behalf of mankind, but also as a necessary prelude to
His death…
It was many hours after
this vision closed before the one who witnessed this suffering could compose
himself. He wept and wondered at the
Lord's great suffering for mankind. The witness reflected for many days upon
this scene…Why the waves? Why increase
in difficulty?...After long inquiring, the Lord made known to the witness… that
the waves of torment …came in pairs which mirrored each other. The first of each wave poured upon the Lord
those feelings, regrets, recriminations and pains felt by those who injured
their fellow man. Then followed a second
wave, which mirrored the first, but imposed the pains suffered by the victims
of the acts committed by those in the first wave. Instead of the pains of those who inflict
hurt or harm, it was now the anger, bitterness and resentments felt by those
who suffered these wrongs.
From each wave of
suffering, whether as the one afflicting or as the victim…the Lord would
overcome the evil feelings associated…and find His heart again filled with
peace. That is why in the vision of the
suffering of the Lord, it was in the second waves there appeared oftentimes to
be injuries to His body.
The greater difficulty
in these paired waves of torment was always overcoming the suffering of the
victim. With these waves, the Lord
learned to overcome the victim's resentments, to forgive, and to heal both body
and spirit. This was more difficult than
overcoming the struggles arising from the one who committed the evil. This is because the one doing evil knows he
has done wrong and feels a natural regret when he sees himself aright. The victim, however, always feels that it is
their right to hold resentment, to judge their persecutor, and to withhold
peace and love for their fellow men. The
Lord was required to overcome both so He could succor both.
The Lord experienced all
the horror and regret wicked men feel for their crimes when they finally see
the truth. He experienced the suffering
of the victims whose righteous anger and natural resentment and disappointment
must be shed and forgiveness given in order for them to find peace. He overcame them all. He descended below them all. He comprehends it all.
In the final wave, the
most brutal, heinous, evil sins were felt by Him as a victim…He knew how it
felt to wrongly suffer death… He knew what it was like to be a mother holding a
child in her arms as they both are killed by those who delight in their
suffering. He knew what it was to have
virtue robbed from the innocent. He knew
betrayal, treachery and abuse in all its worst degrading horror. As a result,
there is no condition--physical, spiritual, or mental that He does not fully
understand. He knows how to comfort and
direct any who come to Him seeking forgiveness and peace…He suffered that we
might avoid sin by being obedient to His commandments. None of us need harm another, if we will
follow Him…

Personal Learning and Application
Keep
a journal of your thoughts, feelings, insights, and plans to implement what you
learn. As the needs and circumstances in your life change, repeating these
answers will provide you with new insights.
Go back to the questions in the chapter.
Write your answers. Each time you
go through a chapter, your answers might change.
1. Prayerfully consider using the following
resources in your personal study.
Isaiah 49:13–16 (The Savior will not
forsake us)
Hebrews 4:14–16 (We can find help in
times of need through the Savior’s grace and mercy)
2. Study and ponder scriptures about Jesus
Christ and His Atonement. What do scriptures teach about the power of the
Savior?
What
burdens will YOU lay at His feet?
3. How
can the Savior strengthen us even if our loved ones continue in addiction?
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